Hi, I am recently divorced after 20 yrs of marriage, so I'm new to the dating scene, but very excited to see what I've forgotten or never experienced. I am a witty person my sense of humor usually tends to learn towards the rounchy side of things... it's the pervert in me I guess. I am a very outgoing person , I'm not a true blonde... I just keep it that way so I have an excuse for anything stupid I might say or do. I'm on the heavy side but... atleast I'm not hairy or stinky, I do try to take care of myself. I'm a very giving person, I love to pamper and treat my mate like he's the most important thing on the planet, but I'm not to be taken advantage of. I have two kids,,, age 13 and 15, who's father has just hit his mid-life crisis and is not involved with them..... So, my kids are very important to me, and if that's a problem for you,,, then goodbye. Anything else that you would need to know, you can ask.... I'm also very honest, as you talk with me, you will see that . Thanks for visiting.