about me, hhmmmm... well i'm the mother of a beautiful little girl who makes me laugh everyday. she's what makes life worthwhile!! i'm married to a wonderful man who accepts me just as i am. we are complete opposites, but yet we're very happy with each other. i think it's because we learn something new from one another each day! he's the greatest!! <3 i like the darker side of life. i love industrial music & the gothic scene. unfortunately, i'm not able to always dress the part due to my job. i've had to tone down my look drastically, which sucks, but i think that a job that pays well & supports my kid is more important than fitting in with a crowd.