Well the truth always comes out and i found out that after i helped pay for him to go to ks to take care of some stuff he needed to take care of he acutally went to stay with someone else and made her his gf and cheated on me....he lied about where he was at and who he was with and totally played me..i kinda figured thats part of the reason we broke up but i did not want to believe it. He claimed that she was just a friend and that she is controlling him and NOT his gf but yesterday he addmitted that he wants to stay with her and was lying. So im hurt but happy to know the truth it will help me move on.